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I think women are biologically wired to sexually submit to a male they perceive as high or higher status. I’m thinking about conversations I’ve had, and I am thinking back to a grad school situation where looking back I have ZERO doubt I could have fucked this girl the same night I met her (my conscience activated as I was in a relationship at the time and once we got to a certain point I was like I can’t do this). Interestingly, she specifically mentioned she had seen me in the gym all the time so I already had status before that night. About a week later, I ran into her and she called me out for trying to play her like a “slut”. Funny thing is I am close to certain she is NOT yet I have no doubt I could have fucked her that night. And I attribute that entirely to the perceived value differential (she had a pretty face but was chunky and when I was in grad school I was in the best shape of my life, probably only time I was a 9).

What’s my point? I think guys have to have some confidence that if they are in a LTR/marriage that they can trust that if their partner encounters a super high value male with really tight game, that she isn’t just going to spread em. I think testing how “easy” a girl is gives some indication of that.

Mike says:
August 12, 2010 at 2:52 am
Can someone comment about “grudge fucking”? I’ve heard this argument from one of my guy friends. It’s basically an idea from the opposite side of the fence. A guy is interested in a girl, but because she waits too long to give it up (according to him) and makes him “jump through hoops” by taking time to get to know her and spend time with her without being sexually satisfied, he’s no longer really interested in her as a person because he’s annoyed. Now he just wants to screw her and leave her when she finally does have sex with him.
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How often does this happen?

I think this is a rarity because honestly only borderline sociopathic guys would engage in this type of thing. I think the vast majority of guys even player types have some basic level of respect for a girl who is being authentically chaste (only sexual partners in a LTR). I think it was you in fact that mentioned that some of your player friends were actually very respectful and protective of you and your choices.

I think where this “grudge fuck” might come into play is with a “reformed slut”. In other words, you’ve got a girl who has engaged in a ton of casual sex, banging the guy on date 1, 2, or 3, and then all of a sudden she is going to make guy A wait 3 months, 6 months for the same thing she previously was handing out right away. This will piss a guy off for sure, and make him feel like she is trying to play him. In this situation, I’d probably be inclined to the “grudge fuck” myself. It’s like you go to a store and you see 10 people buy something for .05 and then you go to purchase and the price has changed to $100. You are going to feel like you are getting ripped off. Maybe you just walk away, and maybe you try to pull something on the store.


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