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by oldskoolpunk on 2005 May 9 - 18:12 | reply to this comment While I think many things in While I think many things in this article were dead on, I have to comment on the punching of the pillow next to the woman's head, or punching the wall.
My man is amazing, and can make me feel very physically controlled without showing any signs of violence. He is very firm, but would never do anything to seriously scare me or hurt me. However, I would be terrified if he punched a wall or anything near my head. This seems to be extreme and a gesture of violence and lack of self control.
He agrees with me. He can make his point quite easily by pulling my hair, holding me tightly while squeezing my bottom, taking me over his knee, or just generally pinning me down.
I enjoyed the article, but I would advise against the punching of any object.
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Aug 28 - 15:13 | reply to this comment Physical Dominance I agree with you that punching things seems a bit too violent and scary to me. My husband, also agrees. He has no desire to scare me. When things move toward a position where he feels that he needs to assert some control. He never does anything frightening...he holds me against him, squeezes my bottom and if that doesn't immediately work he pulls my pants down. Even if he is not intending to spank me, it's hard not to realize who is in control when you are standing there with a bare bottom.
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2006 Jan 3 - 06:12 | reply to this comment
interesting
I think I need some alone time now *cough* 
